urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:bigeyedrabbit bigeyedrabbit bigeyedrabbit 2008-07-07T17:44:29Z urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:bigeyedrabbit:168523 2008-07-07T17:44:29Z 2008-07-07T17:44:29Z Okay, so as some of you may have noticed, I am not updating anymore. At all. I'm not dead or anything; I've just decided that it's time to let certain other commitments end my honeymoon with blogging. There are others who do it much better, anyway.<br /><br />So today I am declaring a de-friending amnesty, such that if you want to trim my no-updating ass from your Flist, I won't take it as a personal insult. Actually, I wouldn't have taken it as a personal insult anyway. I really don't like to get caught up in the drama associated with "friending" and "de-friending" people. I wish they would call it something else, like "Favorite Journals," because I think that would take some of the potential drama out of the situation. Who knows.<br /><br />Anyway, I may or may not do a "Friends cut" myself in the near future, because I am crap at keeping up with about half of y'all, and I am only going to say this once and hope that everyone believes me and no feelings are hurt: If anyone's name drops from my Flist, it isn't because I am OFFENDED!!!1!!! by anything you've done or said or written or whatever. It's because I just haven't been keeping up for whatever sad and sorry-ass reason. I heartily wish the best to everyone who is reading this. I am not going to "de-friend" anyone out of pettiness or spite.